{"id":1423,"date":"2013-02-08T16:16:36","date_gmt":"2013-02-08T16:16:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/iwa\/?p=185"},"modified":"2013-02-08T16:16:36","modified_gmt":"2013-02-08T16:16:36","slug":"life-is-not-all-sunshine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/combo\/2013\/02\/08\/life-is-not-all-sunshine\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cLife is not all sunshine\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: medium\">Viola Nesfield Owen papers<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: medium\">by Audrey Altman<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Preserving the history of poor and rural women is a mission of the Iowa Women\u2019s Archives, but it can be challenging because these women rarely leave detailed records of their lives. That\u2019s why we were so excited to receive the papers of Viola Nesfield Owen, donated by Gary Whitehead.\u00a0 The collection contains dozens of letters between his grandmother, Viola Nesfield Owen, and her family, written from 1921 to 1963.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_186\" style=\"width: 260px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/iwa\/files\/2011\/11\/OwenLetters-photo.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-186\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/iwa\/files\/2011\/11\/OwenLetters-photo-250x300.jpg\" width=\"250\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">A few letters from the Viola Nesfield Owen papers.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Viola was a high-spirited woman who saw her family through many hardships, and her letters give insight into how Midwestern women dealt with family, work, and financial hardships.<\/p>\n<p>Viola Nesfield was born in 1896.\u00a0 She grew up in Waterloo, Iowa, with her father, step-mother and two younger half-sisters.\u00a0 In 1921, Viola\u00a0planned to marry\u00a0Vern Owen.\u00a0 Since Vern was divorced, their\u00a0engagement was somewhat scandalous for Viola\u2019s family.\u00a0 Yet Viola and Vern were not to be deterred.\u00a0 They eloped and moved to Wisconsin. This is when the collection of letters between Viola Nesfield Owen and her family begins.\u00a0 The first few years of letters from the Nesfields to Viola are filled with appeals to return home and anxious parental advice.<\/p>\n<p>In 1924, Viola\u2019s father wrote:\u00a0 &#8220;<em>When I am at work I lots of times get worried about you.\u00a0 I wish you would begin to look forward for you are sure to get some rainy days.\u00a0 You know life is not all sunshine.\u00a0 Try to save all you can.\u201d<\/em> (June 20, 1924)<\/p>\n<p>But Viola did not move home.\u00a0 Instead, she and Vern started a family.\u00a0 Her children are by far the most common topic of her letters.\u00a0 My favorite of Viola\u2019s letters is dated August 14, 1928.\u00a0 It was written from her hospital bed, shortly after she delivered her first child, Robert Harrison.\u00a0 In big, messy letters that practically fall off the lines of the page, she wrote, <em>\u201cHow I wish you could see him.\u00a0 He is so cute and \u2018fat as butter.\u2019\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard not to admire Viola, who was sometimes called \u201cHa! Ha!\u201d for her unquenchable good spirits.\u00a0 Her daughter, Betty, nearly died of kidney disease when she was two years old.\u00a0 Viola made a pact with God that if He spared Betty\u2019s life, she would never complain about her hardships.\u00a0 It is evident in her letters that Viola tried hard to keep this promise, even though her family experienced dire poverty through the 1920s and 1930s.<\/p>\n<p>In 1927, the Owens moved into a tar paper shack in Janesville, Wisconsin, with no electricity or running water.\u00a0 Yet Viola&#8217;s letter bearing the news to her family reflected no bitterness.\u00a0 She mused, <em>\u201cWe ought to save money here.\u00a0 No place to spend it.\u201d<\/em> (October 9, 1927).<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_591\" style=\"width: 189px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/iwa\/files\/2012\/11\/ViolaNesfieldOwenPic_Small.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-591\" alt=\"Viola Nesfield Owen\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/iwa\/files\/2012\/11\/ViolaNesfieldOwenPic_Small.jpg\" width=\"179\" height=\"270\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Viola Nesfield Owen<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>During the Depression, Viola\u2019s husband Vern struggled to hold a job.\u00a0 Viola worked as a pianist, piano and accordion teacher, and as a transcriber for the WPA Braille Project.\u00a0 Despite Viola\u2019s contribution to the family income, they often struggled financially, and Viola\u2019s optimistic resolve was tested.\u00a0 On January 13, 1933, she wrote: <em>\u201cI would be so glad if Vern could make a dollar a week.\u00a0 Now I don\u2019t mean to complain and I always said I never would if Betty love could only get better and the rest of us keep our good health, but if I don\u2019t write very soon you will know Vern is still jobless\u2026 Soliders and Sailors Relief are getting me a pair of shoes today.\u00a0 Isn\u2019t it awful to have to depend on somebody like that but what can you do? I was walking on the ground.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>But the next month, Viola had found something to celebrate again:\u00a0 <em>\u201cI was so extravagant I ate a whole orange all by myself.\u00a0 Ha! Ha!\u201d<\/em> (February 2, 1933)\u00a0 During the 1940s, Viola found new independence.\u00a0 She started working for Parker Pen in Janesville, WI, and wrote excitedly about her various administrative duties at the factory.\u00a0 She also divorced her husband, but continued to care for him, especially after he suffered a stroke in 1948.\u00a0 Viola and her family continued to write each other, and the collection of letters extends to 1963.<\/p>\n<p><em>Audrey Altman, a graduate student\u00a0in the University of Iowa School of Library and Information Science,\u00a0processed the Viola Nesfield Owen papers while working in the<\/em> <em>Iowa Women&#8217;s Archives in 2011\/2012.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Viola Nesfield Owen papers by Audrey Altman Preserving the history of poor and rural women is a mission of the Iowa Women&rsquo;s Archives, but it can be challenging because these [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":143,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/combo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1423"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/combo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/combo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/combo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/143"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/combo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1423"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/combo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1423\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2094,"href":"https:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/combo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1423\/revisions\/2094"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/combo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1423"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/combo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1423"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.lib.uiowa.edu\/combo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1423"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}